The Grass is Greener

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I remem­ber when I met you. No stars hung in mid-air nor into your eyes did I stare. No fan­fare, con­fetti or bal­loons. No falling under the spell of your moon. Romance isn’t always a Belinda Carlisle song.

Love can’t move moun­tains. Love can’t part the seas. Love doesn’t mean I’m the one for you nor you for me.

Some­times when I am alone with­out you, I won­der if the grass is not greener. The other side, the other life, there are always fields of gold for will­ing seek­ers. There is honey and molasses and ambrosia untasted; surely to abstain and to for­sake would be to waste?

There is always more.

I can have every­one. I can have any­one. But I don’t want to move moun­tains; I want to always climb your sweet hills. I don’t want to part the seas, not when your river runs through me still. The grass may be greener, but truth be told, we all know there are no fields of gold. That’s alright though.

Who cares about grass or glit­ter when I have you in my arms to hold?

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Words & design by Kenny Mah. Pho­to­graph by Steve Steve.

64 Comments

  • aww.. that’s so sweet. “I want nobody, nobody but you.” heh :)

  • wei.. slow down..! u blog too fast!

    the grass is always greener on the other side.. but we ARE ‘the oth­er­side’ to the per­son look­ing on .. rite?! Excel­lent.. love can move moun­tains wat.. it can it can it can! hehe

  • Awww. You’re so gonna get lucky :) Wait, you already are!

  • it is really sweet kenny.. awww

  • awwww… dia­betic induc­ing… I wuz plan­ning to do some­thing sim­i­lar… but obvi­ously it will never be able to com­pare to this… you always did have a flair with words… :)

  • Once we make that clean break from the con­ven­tional notion of earth shat­ter­ing romance, the mod­ern more util­i­tar­ian approach to romance is just as charm­ing and inspir­ing, if not more. It may not be eter­nal or death defy­ing but nope, who needs for­ever nor immor­tal­ity when we have the Won­der Girls?

  • if u’re feel­ing wist­fully roman­tic, go watch (500) days of sum­mer, now show­ing at sun­way pyra­mid. it’s poignant, achingly truth­ful, yet life-affirming.
    romance is usu­ally a mag­netic fields song for me. or jewel, if u pre­fer some­thing more accessible.

  • Noth­ing in this world can com­pare to your words above… ‘coz they truly come straight from your heart. ;)

  • how am i to com­ment when your post had said it all? but note to self, i GOT to get my good friend to read this!

  • Poh Chu wrote:

    Belinda Carlisle song? Is it La Luna?

  • Yes, indeed when we come to think abt it, we do have choices but ulti­mately the per­son we chose to be with gave us the most happiness.

    Now.. HAPPINESS.. I find that that’s the most cov­eted state of being to be in.

  • Other than feel­ing the sticky goo-ey lovey dovey feel­ing after read­ing what you write.…

    I am sud­denly think­ing of sal­ads! Green crisp sal­ads.
    I some­times won­der what is going on up there in my mind…

  • So glad u r back to the blog­ging world Kenny.

    Grass is always greener.. hmm.. I fall into that trap too BUT then I remem­ber to appre­ci­ate and hold on to what I have now. After­all, some­times we for­get that we already have it in front of us– it is just a mat­ter of tun­ing our minds to it. =)

  • woah bro, u sure score big-big la with this kinda words. gerenti!

    thanks to this post, tom jones’ green green grass of home’s stuck in my head. will it come with imag­in­ery panties thrown at me? :D

  • the_lighthouse wrote:

    green grass, fields of gold, farmer of love? =P

  • I think peo­ple always look for things they do not have, that is why the grass appears greener.

  • the day when the grass is no longer greener , is the day of the begin­ning of the fin­ish line.
    Mean­time the greener the bet­ter for we must have the fin­ish­ing touches for the grand finis

  • Well-said. Value those that are near.

  • Awwww… so sweet.… how I wish that some­one could be so roman­tic to write like this to me.… coz’ I would be the hap­pi­est per­son on earth!!!

  • Kopi Soh wrote:

    I like this, I like this very much.

  • kristopher wrote:

    grass is greener for the green-eyed mon­ster. TRUST is the key to happiness.

  • Chin.C wrote:

    gooshh.…u could kill a soul — i mean female with all your lines..haha! Keep blog­ging! guess lots of us are hunger for more.

  • I like my grass in the shade they’re cur­rently in. Not too green — just enough to remind me that it’s alive, but not so much that I for­get to tend to it.

    We need to tend to grass, green or no green. Else weeds would take over. No?

    =)

  • u hit the nail right on the head. the boyfriend has jt flew back today. sigh.

  • Vivian wrote:

    Words to melt a girl’s heart. ;D

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Haha, I love that Korean song. Won­der Girls, right?

  • yeah! haha “I can have every­one. I can have any­one” I like this line too! good to see you are back to blog­ging often! : )

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Me? ME blog too fast? I think it’s a case of the pot call­ing the ket­tle a rather deli­cious shade of obsid­ian, my dear. ;)

    Now over to you and your mov­ing of moun­tains… Hehehe.

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Heh. I am. But reminders sure don’t hurt. :D

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    That line was actu­ally not meant to be boast­ful though when I reread the post, I was wor­ried it might come off as much. It’s meant to con­vey that if we wanted to, we could really be with any­one in any form of rela­tion­ship pos­si­ble (not just roman­tic) but that all these may pale in com­par­i­son to the one rela­tion­ship that ful­fills us this deeply.

    As for blog­ging more reg­u­larly now, haha — who knows how long it will last? :P

  • haha­ha­hah yeah that’s my first impres­sion, whoa kenny can get every­one and any­one he wants! HAHA i know there’s a deeper mean­ing :)

    well, it’s good while it last. Give us every­thing you got, every ouch of lyri­cal juice in you. hehe

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    I am sud­denly fear­ful of an avalanche of awww’s. LOL

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Eeks. There goes another awwwww. LOL

    You should go ahead and express your­self, dear. Never mind what sac­cha­rine schtick I come up with. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Aye. Con­ven­tional wis­dom is truly over­rated. We need to make our own brand of hap­pi­nesss and lurve.

    And yay to Won­der Girls! I really should do a post on them and their fans soon. They cer­tainly gave me much joy lately. Hehe.

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    1. Well, it’s a dif­fer­ent mean­ing, sure. I’m not cer­tain that it is indeed a deeper mean­ing. I’m totally shal­low, y’know. *looks blank blank*

    2. For LYRICAL juice, apply within Lyri­cal Lemongrass’s blog. Heh.

    P.S. You leave the best com­ments ever, mate. (And that’s say­ing a lot, con­sid­er­ing LFB read­ers leave darn excel­lent com­ments to begin with.)

    Props to LIC! :D

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    P.P.S. Isn’t it weird we all go by acrony­mous pseu­do­nyms? LFB. LIC. FBB. LL/AWOL. TNG. Any oth­ers I’m miss­ing? :P

  • aww.. thanks! every­body leave great com­ments here! hee keropok­man too long, what’s his? hahahah

    And you ain’t shal­low, I always read deep deep into your lines : )

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    I’d go with Mr. Stephin Mer­ritt any­time. Was just lis­ten­ing to his 69 Love Songs last night. His ‘Busby Berke­ley Dreams’ is par­tic­u­larly nos­tal­gic and wrench­ing. I’m not too sure about life-affirming though.

    I totally want to watch (500) Days of Sum­mer — any­thing that show­cases the tal­ents of Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Zooey Deschanel has me as a fan… even before view­ing the work itself. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Keropok­man: SDP? SDMP? Sin­ga­pore Daily Makan Photo, that’s the full title of his blog, rite?

    And I ain’t ain’t shal­low; just that you are deep deep. LOL

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Thanks, dear. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Ah, and who’s this good friend? *kay­poh kenny gets kuri­ous, er, curious*

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    B.I.N.G.O. :D

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    True, that. Of course, hap­pi­ness and con­fi­dence must come from within first… That’s what makes us attrac­tive to our part­ners, no? :)

  • a friend who thinks that love can move moun­tains, love can part seas and love is the one and only one for each other. ;)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Sal­ads? You’ve been read­ing A Lil Fat Monkey’s blog and his Salad Diet, haven’t you? :P

  • the_lighthouse wrote:

    u may go away, but u always come back! =)

  • pandai betul!

    ya, have been eat­ing it too. hehe..

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    I’m like a bad penny, I am! :P

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Oh gosh, has the whole world turned to this new mad green diet? Eeks! :P

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Turn our minds to it — I like that phrase… It takes con­crete action on our part, you mean. We must want to want this badly enough, to make it work. Ohm, ohm.

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Okay is it weird that I got the panties com­ment but not the song title? Tom Jones? All I know of him is that Sexbomb song la… :P

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    More like hum­ble ser­vant of lurve. O poor me. :P

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Yet the greener grass may not taste as good once we’ve had a bite… No?

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    I like that — if it’s to work, if it’s gonna last, let’s make it grand and majes­tic, this thing we call LOVE. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    And those who are far in the flesh but near in the heart? Trea­sure them all, says I.

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    I think we can be truly happy even with­out romance, just that a good romance helps spruce things up so much more. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Oh Kopi Soh, I wish you’d start blog­ging again. I miss your posts out in the real world. You deserve to be read by many, many more people.

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Trust doesn’t come overnight though, bro. One day at a time. :)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    More? I’m slow­ing down a bit this week due to work­load but maybe by the week­end, a new post? *fin­gers crossed*

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Kill them weeds! ;)

  • Poh Chu wrote:

    Yes! Knew it. The 80s songs are the best! =)

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    Aren’t they, though? There’s never been a decade to repeat that feat in my hum­ble opinion…

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    But he will fly back even­tu­ally. Keep the faith till then, my dear. *hugs*

  • Kenny Mah wrote:

    And them boys? Are their hearts unmeltable? :P

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